The Best Thing About Being in a Bad Relationship
The best thing about being in a screwed up relationship .. is that when its over you just don’t give a fuck. The reason for that insensitive comment is because most likely, you’ve already been hurt multiple times by straining to stay in a relationship, that is inevitably heading to crash and burn. The damage has already been done, so when you let go, It’s like you can finally breath without feeling like you have 500 pounds on your shoulders. Trying relentlessly to make something work that has no potential is emotionally exhausting and not healthy for both parties in the relationship.
Sometimes we have such a hard time letting go of people because we are in fear of being without that comfort. Comfort can make people afraid of change and expierementing new things in life. Comfort can ultimately lead to making excuses for not changing a situation, getting rid of a bad person in your life, or trying something new.
Staying in a relationship that makes you miserable is not the solution. When you start to resent the person, feel angry toward them for no good reason, start to feel like you would rather be anywhere else but with that person.. It’s time to raise the white flag and MOVE ON.
I’ve been dreaming about escaping to other countries for months now, thinking that running away from my problems and hiding would make them disappear. But, I realize that the problem was closing my eyes to the truth and not taking matters into my own hands and just dealing with them.
If you find yourself in a similar situation, then I am here to tell you that change is necessary for unhappy individuals. Deal with your problems face on and don’t be afraid to just ACT. Life can be so complicated but it can also be stress free. Which one do you choose?